Sexual Orientation

[What Now]

Any so cal people going to Long Beach Pride this weekend?

[Splash_Mountain]

Sounds like Johnny is talking from personal experience.

Sure was, busted his front teeth out. Friends for 15 years and one day he got that look in his eye and well I decided that was enough. I think he was BI but never really suspected he was or that he would get in my bed one night and well you can figure out what happened next. Pinched my butt and I punched his teeth out.. NO didnt work so I said no another way.

Thats why I like women for freinds because if they get into bed with you then at least its a one night stand.

 

Um, overkill. I have loads of straight guy friends. There is one I have a mini-crush on at work and we make jokes about it, it's funny if anything. He calls me a fag and i'm like "Half correct"

[astroworldfan1]

Gay people rock!

 

-Tatum

[WillMontu]

I'm still single, never dated, never kissed.

Someday I might want to have a girlfriend, but I don't know if that day will ever come. If someone is trying to flirt with me (I've been told that girls have), I don't tend to notice, as I'm not good at reading facial and nonverbal expressions.

[snoodog]

I am a straight acting gay.

 

 

just kiddin..

 

I am straight. But I would change for David Beckham.

[Sasquatch]

Im gay, and most likely in the same bloodline as Big Foot lol hence my name... i love being a big ba$tard

[Bucket]

I recently met a girl that I am really attracted to. There is something about her that really stands out and I find myself so confused. She's not conventionally "hot" but she is beautiful to me. I know that I am gay, but for some reason, I know it would feel right if we were in a relationship together. We've talked about this, and we've even talked about the possibility of dating, but I'm not sure if it would be a good idea. I want to try it but I don't want to hurt her if it doesn't work out. I thought that I might be bisexual, but I don't think I would be in a relationship with any other woman in the world except for her. Advice?

[Louise]

^ If she knows the situation (ie, that you're gay but attracted to pretty much her and her alone from the female half of the species), then I'd leave it up to her! As long as she understands that she's likely going to be the one to get hurt, then why not go for it? If you truly know you're gay, then it isn't gonna work out between you two, but it might result in a lot of happiness for a short time and then a great friendship... That's what happened with me, pretty much. *shrug* Just make sure she gets it, don't let her go into it blind.

[QuakerOaties]

Yeah, I agree with Louise. If she has thought about the situation and truly understands it, then see what happens. I've been in a similar situation, so be sure to let us know how it turns out.

[SharkTums]

^Awww, yeah I know Quaker...I love you too!

[QuakerOaties]

Shhh Robb still doesn't know what happened between us!

[schotj]

I'm still single, never dated, never kissed.

Someday I might want to have a girlfriend, but I don't know if that day will ever come. If someone is trying to flirt with me (I've been told that girls have), I don't tend to notice, as I'm not good at reading facial and nonverbal expressions.

 

 

It's not that hard really. If the girl openly talks to you....and just babbles on about random crap, that is a sign she might be interested. Also, look into her eyes when you talk to her. If she returns the favor (staring back) that is a sign too. Usually she will laugh at most of the things you say, even if it is not funny. Lots of little signs, add up.

[Swimace]

If the girl openly talks to you....and just babbles on about random crap, that is a sign she might be interested.

 

hahahaha, just respond with "wow, that is so interesting, please tell me more". Nod for about five minutes, then repeat.

[ebl]

"I know that I am gay, but for some reason, I know it would feel right if we were in a relationship together...I thought that I might be bisexual..." (Bucket)

 

You might want to explore yourself a bit before commiting to a relationship. That is, whether you are gay or in fact bisexual. With such strong feelings for a woman, particularly if they are sexual in any way, then I'm guessing you may well be the latter.

 

Eric

[schotj]

If the girl openly talks to you....and just babbles on about random crap, that is a sign she might be interested.

 

hahahaha, just respond with "wow, that is so interesting, please tell me more". Nod for about five minutes, then repeat.

 

YES!!! hahah, but make it seem like you are in fact interested, with more than just words. Body language is the real tell-tale to a girl. Dont' be lookin all over and fidgeting. Stay calm, and confident and just go with the flow!

[terrancew_hod]

^And PLEASE don't stare at the boobies as noted in the picture above.

 

[Bucket]

You might want to explore yourself a bit before committing to a relationship. That is, whether you are gay or in fact bisexual. With such strong feelings for a woman, particularly if they are sexual in any way, then I'm guessing you may well be the latter.

 

I've slept with both women and men before but it has never really felt right with a woman. Sex never crosses my mind with this new girl that I met and I love that. I just really enjoy being around her and I love it when she hugs me or is near me. It's so hard to explain because it's not a physical attraction (well, it is a little bit) but it's her personality that I am crazy about. Like I said before, I don't consider myself bisexual because I would never date women, but with her, I feel like I want to date her.

[terrancew_hod]

^Well confusion is the worse thing you can bring into any potentially romantic situation. If you aren't thinking about sex, you may love that but she might not. You go for it and sooner or later it's gonna come up. You deny her and you're gonna hurt her. If you can't commit yourself fully to being with her, then leave it alone.

 

What you are doing right now, young one, is creating drama.

 

D-R-A-M-A.

 

Had to spell it out for you. You'll recognize that type of stuff as you get older.

 

Terry

[Bucket]

What you are doing right now, young one, is creating drama.

 

D-R-A-M-A.

 

Had to spell it out for you. You'll recognize that type of stuff as you get older.

 

How am I creating drama, when there is no romantic relationship involved? This girl is well aware of my sexuality and has made it clear that she does not want to date me. It is me, who has feelings for her... not the other way around.

[terrancew_hod]

How am I creating drama, when there is no romantic relationship involved? This girl is well aware of my sexuality and has made it clear that she does not want to date me. It is me, who has feelings for her... not the other way around.

 

What you just posted is a good example of drama: stressing over feelings you have for someone when there is no chance of anything happening. And if it did, chances are it would have ended really badly. It seems to me that all that energy can go someplace else. But really think dropping it is for the best.

 

When I was younger I was in a similar situation with my best female friend; but I told her it wouldn't be fair to be with her when I still liked guys more. She protested a bit, but years later she told me she thought that she could "turn" me; she was in a bit of denial over the whole thing and she couldn't admit it. But because we didn't make things awkward between us, we have been friends for over 20 years.

 

Terry

[schotj]

^And PLEASE don't stare at the boobies as noted in the picture above.

 

 

 

hahah QFT!!!!

[Bucket]

What you just posted is a good example of drama: stressing over feelings you have for someone when there is no chance of anything happening.

 

I don't see it that way at all. I'm not stressed in the least bit, in fact, quite the opposite. I'm excited that I'm experiencing new romantic feelings... surely you've felt something similar? I know that it will never work out, and I accept that. We've all had people we've liked (regardless of sexuality) and not have the feelings reciprocated, but I hardly think these sort of life experiences are considered "drama" as you put it.

[terrancew_hod]

Well I got 20 years of experience on ya, so you probably should take my word on it.

 

I didn't earn the nickname "mama" among my friends for nothing ya know!

 

Terry

[JuanSe_Colombia]

Hey ok I'm liek in a thing. This boy that I know few time ago I really like he and I thing I like him back. So I'm leaving to California on late june like for 5 months. So what should I do should let it or should try something with him

[schotj]

Hey ok I'm liek in a thing. This boy that I know few time ago I really like he and I thing I like him back. So I'm leaving to California on late june like for 5 months. So what should I do should let it or should try something with him

 

 

I don't think I understood even half of that post