Justin Adams Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 So yeah, my girlfriend of a year and a half tells me that she can't accept me for me, the good and the bad, and she's unhappy with how she feels because of it. So we broke up. I hate this, I do, but I guess it's for the best. I mean, why would I want to be with someone who doesn't accept me for who I am, goofiness and all? I personally think differences are something to be celebrated, not shunned, but I guess not all people feel that way. It's not like we were all that different either, but whatever. Anyways, I guess it's back to the single life.
AllisonY2K Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 (edited) hmm..I wonder what her version of the story is... it's okay darlin. I'm not going give you all the cliche make-you-feel-better comments. take some time out to let yourself get over her and and get back into enjoying the single life. Edited September 26, 2005 by AllisonY2K
SharkTums Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 Eh, Women are overrated...you'll find a better one at some point! Meanwhile, you always have an open invitation to come visit us anytime! We missed you at the party! Less Women = More Money!
SLUSHIE Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 I feel bad for you, but girls suck. My girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago and now I think she wants to get back together. She calls me all the time now for "no reason," and she wanted me to hang out with her today at a show. I have no plans getting back together with her.
FlyingScooter Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 It seemed to be a weekend for things like that. Sorry to hear about it. I hate to say this, but there are plenty other women out there and I'm honestly not sure if that's a inspiration or a curse. My G-friend and i are real close to the edge right now. She has mood shifts which are getting, well, spooky. She's bipolar, but medicated for it. She had the meds adjusted and it isn't doing much good. Best of luck!
Sir Clinksalot Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 Justin, I am sorry to hear that you guys broke up. If she can't love you for who you are, then yeah you are better off without her. It doesn't make it any easier, but you have to do what is best for you. Like Elissa said, now you can come down and visit!! Kristi "relationships are hard!!" C.
Justin Adams Posted September 26, 2005 Author Posted September 26, 2005 Hey, thanks for the encouragement. I'll be just fine, it's hard but I'm a pretty strong person. No whining from me. And yes, Elissa and Kristi, I can be part of the group more now! I'm actually considering coming down south next weekend, the 8th through the 10th. I have Columbus Day off and I want to get away. Justin
ebl Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 My wife and I are teetering on the edge, too. Sad after being together for 20 years. We'll see what happens. You'll find somebody better. You deserve it. Eric
Kroger8 Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 Oh no EBL^ thats too bad after 20 years, it really does seem like its been one of those weekends, me and my girlfriend got in our first big argument this weekend over me saying that we had been dating for 3 months instead of 2, can you believe that? Oh well, shes over it now, but gah...
Louise Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 Seeing as this seems to be the right thread to cry over relationships... My boyfriend and I split up two weeks ago after three and a half years together... It was a mutual decision, we were just stuck in a rut but it's still really tough to be without him after all this time. Sorry to hear other people are having similar problems. It sucks. Louise "thank god i have such amazing friends" R.
CreativeForce Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 I'm sorry to hear that Justin, that's really harsh. It may not feel like it now, but you really are better off without her and I'm sure you'll meet someone better. Take care bro, and let us all know if you come down south for a visit.
SLUSHIE Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 My G-friend and i are real close to the edge right now. She has mood shifts which are getting, well, spooky. She's bipolar, but medicated for it. She had the meds adjusted and it isn't doing much good. Sounds like my ex. At least yours takes the medication. I hope all goes well with you two.
Teddymonster Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Yeah, I am manic-depressive as well, and we are definitely NOT easy people to live with. Gotta give YOU credit for even starting anything with her, as most bipolar relationships end on rough terms (not all). Sorry to hear that.
Florida420 Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Hey, chin up man, remember...all women suck (most of them anyway) :shock: That's why we keep 'em around 8) just tryin' to lighten the mood. Oh Yeah...um...the women on this site don't suck, they are all cool, especially Elissa P All " I'm gonna go now"
AllisonY2K Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 ^^ yeah really. make it a little more obvious.
BelizeIt Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Well if you Dated for over a Year, then there is a chance that the Break Up won't last! Peoples Emotions often make them React Irrationally, which can lead to Regret, Reconciliation, and really good Make Up Sex!!! So hope for the best! But, if it is over, then move on! Don't sit there feeling Sorry for Yourself! This planet is filled with a lot of Great People! The Next Miss Right could be right around the Corner!
andrea Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 yeah everyone is right if she cant except you for you than screw it, this would be one boring world if everyone was the same and they did'nt have a sence of humor wich i've heard that you do, thats just an important part of it and even though the only medicine for a broken heart is time, while your healing let her find someone stuck up and stupid.oh well her loss.
AllisonY2K Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 ^^ yeah, time helps to heal a broken heart. it's the taking time to get over an ex that stinks. It took me about a year to finally get over my last ex, and we had been together for almost 3 years. I'm sure I ran off some good guys during that year of recovery.
Sir Clinksalot Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Justin, come on down, we will go back to Hooters and share another $20 pitcher of Newcastle.
Justin Adams Posted September 27, 2005 Author Posted September 27, 2005 Justin, come on down, we will go back to Hooters and share another $20 pitcher of Newcastle. Don't worry, I'll be there! Justin
Justin Adams Posted September 27, 2005 Author Posted September 27, 2005 I'm sorry to hear that Justin, that's really harsh. It may not feel like it now, but you really are better off without her and I'm sure you'll meet someone better. Take care bro, and let us all know if you come down south for a visit. Thanks bud. I'm coming down next weekend I think, and visiting with Gregg and Kristi, probably doing Disneyland and maybe Knott's or something. I'd like to do the smaller parks I haven't been to, Castle, Scandia, stuff like that maybe. It's up to them. Join us!
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