Ok, so, I ended up going and it was crowded but we managed...
The longest wait was for Tower of Terror, probably close to an hour..
For the more popular rides like Rockin' and Everest, we just rode singles...
We still got fast passes for Kali River Rapids and Space Mountain, so really all of our wait times were managable
Star wars weekends was really a disappointment to me...Maybe just because I was there at a bad time, but I felt like there was barely any Star Wars theming...
And as for the gay days, I think it just added to the fun
My friends and I had an amazing time (considering it was my friends first time to Disney )