i don´t understand your problem!
just don´t act like a battle lesbian, don´t provocate with your sexual orientation and you will do fine.
the way you life out your sexuality should be strictly private (!!!!!!!!!) so nobody can sue you for your behavior. there´s a gay chef and a lesbian bartender and a lesbian waitress working for me at my restaurant, they do their jobs great, they don´t harass guests or co-workers with their sexual orientation, so why should anybody condemn them?!
so, if i can tell you just one thing:
NEVER mix your job and your private life!!!!!