Homo here. But I'm open-minded. I accept straight people for the lifestyle that they choose.
Is sexuality a choice? From my own experience, knowledge, and from the experience of others, it's not a choice for most.
I didn't wake up one day and decide, "Hey, I think that I want to be a person who gets stereotyped, discriminated, and hated. I think I feel like losing a few of my good friends. I think I'll come out to them. While I'm at it, I might as well come out to my parents. Who cares if my own blood disowns me? Like my mother would ever chase me with a hatchet when she finds out (hey, it's happened to a friend). Shoot, I might as well come out at work. I don't really want the job. What's my boss going to do, fire me? That has NEVER happened (sarcasm?) Hmm... When I hold another guy's hand in public, I want everyone to stare at us like we are aliens. Oooh, you know what? I don't need legal marriage, kids, adoption, or civil rights. That stuff is for straight people. Oh and the sound of an increased risk of HIV is just breathtaking. Yeah, this sounds fun. I mean, when I weigh options from both sides, CHOOSING to be gay sounds so much more appealing!"
I'm sorry, but if I really had a choice here, I wouldn't choose this option. We don't choose to be discriminated and hated by some. We choose to be ourselves.
-Kyle