Sexual Orientation

[Bucket]

^Why'd they photoshop his face over my body?

 

I like women. I don't care what other people like, as long as the girl I like likes men... But I have a best friend who is gay and have been hit on by men.

 

Hey, you should take it as a compliment when a gay guy hits on you! That means you're hot!

[Nrthwnd]

Mum: "Yes! It means I don't have to worry about grandchildren! I can party!"

 

 

That was a great, surprise reaction I read here. Good for her being herself, heh heh.

[terrancew_hod]

Hey, you should take it as a compliment when a gay guy hits on you! That means you're hot!

 

I'm more guessing you were out with your gay friend at the bar. You just have to remember the magic words so you aren't harassed: "I'm not interested." Telling them "I'm straight" makes it a challenge to some of the tired ones.

 

I did have a coworker that I took a week-long business trip tell me that his good friend told him that he was gay. He said "We used to undress around each other and sleep in the same bed, but he never tried anything. I don't know if I should be honored or upset!" Then he rented a porno and I guess he wanted me to do something... he was getting married in a month and I guess that was going to be his last fling. I went to sleep.

 

He was cute, but I don't do that sort of thing, especially with coworkers or people I know I'm not getting anything I want out of the deal. That's as much as I can say without being totally naughty.

 

Terry

[KileyJoJoStacie]

im gay

[schotj]

im gay

 

^ I'm Straight!!!

 

But anyways, I just found out one of my best friends in high school is gay. I am now at the end of my freshman year in college, and am totally shocked. He was always talkin about girls and such during high school, I dont know what made him change his mind. Kissing a girl just seems so much more.........I dont know.......better.......

[Moose]

Kissing a girl just seems so much more.........I dont know.......better.......

 

more better? Hmm.

 

Maybe to you prefer to kiss girls, but your friend doesn't and I am sure the gay guys here certainly don't agree with you. I personally prefer kissing men.

[sfotkid]

Im straight. My grandma's a lesbian... lol really!

[twistedmickey]

^ That reminds me of the last season of Roseanne.

 

Still Gay here and yes I like to kiss men not boys.

[christianscoasters]

^OMG I LOVE ABBA!!!

 

(Your sig ... hehe)

[odene497]

I dont know what made him change his mind.

 

 

Nothing did.

[supertrooper]

^OMG I LOVE ABBA!!!

 

(Your sig ... hehe)

 

It's pretty much required.

[christianscoasters]

^OMG YOUR NAME!!! I love that song!!

 

I dont know what made him change his mind.

 

 

Nothing did.

 

Society told him to say those things. (Get what I mean)

[Johnny Upsidedown]

Ladies

Chicks for me (especially naked ones), just wish mine liked amusement parks like I do. Have to find a new lady that likes to hit the parks, it would make life so much easier.

 

Dont like guys even as freinds cause one day they might surprise you and ask you on a date.

[DBru]

^So you live your life with no male friends because of fear that one might be gay?

 

That's messed up! (And this is coming from a straight 14 year old...)

[krazekiddd]

^I'm pretty sure he's just being sarcastic. At least that's how I took it.

[twistedmickey]

Sounds like Johnny is talking from personal experience. You can always say "not interested." And if he doesnt get it after that then maybe you werent meant to be friends.

 

By the way.... what is a super trooper????

[terrancew_hod]

I got my "Middle Aged Queer" packet in the mail today.

 

They were sure quick about sending that thing out!

 

Still look good though.

 

Terry "Officially 40 Today" Weaver

[Johnny Upsidedown]

Sounds like Johnny is talking from personal experience.

Sure was, busted his front teeth out. Friends for 15 years and one day he got that look in his eye and well I decided that was enough. I think he was BI but never really suspected he was or that he would get in my bed one night and well you can figure out what happened next. Pinched my butt and I punched his teeth out.. NO didnt work so I said no another way.

Thats why I like women for freinds because if they get into bed with you then at least its a one night stand.

[odene497]

^I think you can call that a fluke, most gay guys aren't gonna try something with you if they know you're straight. And that's just the gay ones, the straight ones wouldn't anyway. I don't think it's something that should really keep you from having any guy friends.

 

 

 

 

-Nick

[twistedmickey]

I find it very interesting the way you handled that situation. I think its a great idea that you don't have any male friends, gay or straight. Violence is NOT the answer! Stick to female friends...at least if you hit one of them you can end up in jail.

[Scaparri]

That seems a bit overkill, does it not?

 

I've had guy friends make moves despite knowing I was straight, but I've also had girl friends make moves despite knowing I was not interested. It's practically the same thing to me. However, I don't steer clear of girls I'm not interested in just because of a few bad experiences. It seems a little absurd to write off all guys just because of one negative experience.

[Johnny Upsidedown]

Well there is alot more to the story that I wont share and there were a few other reasons for the violence and alot of alcohol was involved. When I used to drink, I was one of those people that when you add lots of alcohol I become instant, violent a$$ whole. Only time I ever hit somebody as I am not a violent person... Just one of those days somebody pushed my Jack A$$ button as Bill Engval would say.

 

Enough of my sadistic past, it was a long time ago when I was a younger man (boy).. My threapist says I am much better now.

[Bucket]

Dont like guys even as freinds cause one day they might surprise you and ask you on a date.

 

Sounds like you are homophobic if you have a fear of men (regardless of their sexuality) hitting on you. I agree 100% with Scaparri on this one. It's total overkill to just write off an entire gender of people based on one bad experience. I definitely think this homophobia is something you should try to get over, as there are some really cool lads out there that you could possibly befriend.

 

Thats why I like women for freinds because if they get into bed with you then at least its a one night stand.

 

Sorry, but I think this is really very sad.

[DBru]

^Don't worry, he said he has a therapist...

[nojarama]

I'm as gay as a three dollar bill (as my dad used to say) & have been proudly since I was a pre-schooler in the 70'sa.

 

Although, my gay card might get revoked, as I despise showtunes, can't decorate to save my life, hate flowers (unless their dead or fake), despise Barbra Streisand & the only Judy Garland I like is in two places (The Wizard of Oz, of course and in her heroin-induced daze before she croaked). Guess I have to return my free microwave...

 

On the flipside, I wear more make-up than a cheerleader & can cut any irritating breeder down in a second with the strength of my superior verbal abuse tactics.

 

I'd still like to play with a hobo (but I'd rather play with Dan though)!