astroworldfan1 Posted September 15, 2008 Share Posted September 15, 2008 I met two great guys, and have been dating them both casually for about a month now. Unfortunately, I am falling for both of them. Too bad both of them aren't looking for anything serious... really not sure how I'll handle this. It's called a Threesome. -Tatum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalepi_Konei Posted September 15, 2008 Share Posted September 15, 2008 I met two great guys, and have been dating them both casually for about a month now. Unfortunately, I am falling for both of them. Too bad both of them aren't looking for anything serious... really not sure how I'll handle this. It's called a Threesome. -Tatum I cannot express how hard I was laughing at this so I'll let the smileys say it all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SonOfBeastSucks Posted September 15, 2008 Share Posted September 15, 2008 "Love is just an illusion, a dream you wake up from with a hangover..."-Janet Fitch Thats all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terrancew_hod Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Last weekend I got a little attention, but ultimately I was still on "me" time. Two guys were trying to talk to me at the same time and I sent them both walking. "Sorry guys, after the last few months I'm still not ready. Good night." One guy was speaking "ghetto" and I told him I don't speak like that and to clean it up. Surprisingly he did. I'm pretty simple so I don't need all that pretending and acting. Just be honest. Still it's been about 12 years since I had people try to fight over me (though it happened only once before), so I was flattered. Terry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
larrygator Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 ^Tyler I would call that flirting. However, if she compliments you on your wonderful hair style, then she is just messing with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcjaco Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Rule number one. Never listen to Larry for dating advice. Tyler, I'd say it was a sign of her being interested. Like you, I needed to be hit by a two by four to pick up signals. Thank god my wife is handy with the lumber. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeemerBoy Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 I have finally met someone that I have a crush on. She's awesome. Of course, just because I like her does not mean the same for me. But she did give me her fortune from her fortune cookie yesterday as walking by my table - something about appreciating my good sense of humor. Is that flirting? I'm the worst at picking up signs. I think she's just trying to get to your joker figurine. Yes, it's flirting. [/serious answer] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cfc Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 I'm not one from whom you should take dating advice either, Tyler, but unless the fortune actually read "You are seriously creepy--leave me alone," I think she's interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcjaco Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 So if she is flirting, do I flirt back. How do I flirt? Do not go directly for the boobs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coaster05 Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 ^Next to Dubai. Tyler just ask her to do anything. That is why college is great. I took girls I liked to the grocery store and it worked. Just be real and have fun the rest will take care of itself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arrowfanman Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 ^^ Have her mark it with Clitter--that will help make it sparkly and easier. Though I have no understanding of flirtation whatsoever, I would say this--if she's started to like you for you (amazing, we all agree ), then however you flirt, make sure it's not in a fashion that changes you. -Jahan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brandy524 Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 ^Good advice! Just be yourself, because obviously that's what she's interested in. Don't try to act like what you think she wants. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terrancew_hod Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 I'm one of those people that has to fall over someone to know that they're attracted to me. I'm oblivious otherwise, because I'm so not used to it. Where is that thing that rhymes with Delores? Oh! Oh! I know! Here ya go! Nothing kills flirtation like funky breath! Ain't I smart? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haux Posted September 16, 2008 Share Posted September 16, 2008 Where is that thing that rhymes with Delores? Mulva? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scooterdoug Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 ^Don't you mean Gipple? CTU Agent, there's some good advice here. Like everyone else says, just be yourself. Don't try to impress her, just focus on having a good time in whatever the next step is. And don't stress, just relax (yeah yeah, I know, easier said than done). -Doug Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeemerBoy Posted September 17, 2008 Share Posted September 17, 2008 If all else fails, go with M&W. She can't say no to at least one of those. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ash.1111 Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 I am going on a date with a guy this Saturday. Wish me luck... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ash.1111 Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Date went VERY well... going to go on a 2nd date soon... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coasterfreak101 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 *Raises Hand* It's a funny story, really. All last year, my friends were convinced that I liked a freshman (now a sophomore) and his friends were convinced that he liked me (now a junior). Well, it worked out that way. Anyways, my mom found out about the whole shebang yesterday (after about four weeks of us dating). She took it pretty well, compared to what I expected. Went out with him tonight - boy, do people stare... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Team Thriller Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Okay, I have a little girl situation her. And I need advice quick. So I was sitting in the movies with my best friend. And in front of me is this girl who I have had a crush on for a long time. So first, out of no where, she asked me to kiss her. (So I did) Than she moves next to me and we hold hands for a long time. (By this point I have no clue what to think.) Then she starts rubbing on my stomach telling me about my six pack (Which I wish was true). After the movie I got her number. So after getting home, I run to the phone to talk to another one of my Best Friends who has dated her and knows her better than any one I know. I tell him the story and he says he has no clue. She has never done that before. My thoughts are: A.) She was bored (But why would she pick me out of everyone in the theater) B.) She was drunk (Which I highly doubt) C.) Out of know where she likes me I don't know what to do. I was going to ask her to homecoming, but I don't know if it was just a one time thing, or if her feelings are really that strong. --James Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ash.1111 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 ^ Dig in! Ask her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalepi_Konei Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 ^^ Knowing you it was probably either A) or B) ... nah just messing with you, but you should date her, see if she really likes you, you apparently already like her ... so thats one thing covered, I say go for it. As for me, I totally caught myself looking at some of the volleyball team yesterday (women) and man what I would do to go out with this one girl.l Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
christianscoasters Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Pervs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yankee cannonball Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 even though I don't need to be dating right now, someone please help me with my main obstacle. I mainly am near girls that I'd wanna go out with when I'm at the dance. What do I say? I can't ask if they wanna go out, we're freaking out! And just hitting on a girl will get you nowhere at my age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
socalMAN123 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 ^ You can like people without dating them. I think some people really are addicted to relationships, like they can't survive without them. What I would say in your situation, is just to like them and not worry about dating yet. Heck, I'm even skeptical to date girls now and I'm almost 15! ---Brent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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